Transformational Tango

 
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Transforming the Dance of Relationships

At its heart, every relationship is a living dance. 

In our partnerships, families, workplaces, and communities, we are constantly navigating closeness and distance, trust and control, vulnerability and protection. Most of us were never taught how to move consciously within this relational dance. Instead, we repeat unconscious patterns—reacting, projecting, withdrawing, over-giving, or blaming.

In these exchanges, we inevitably encounter our defenses and our vulnerabilities, our strengths and our shortcomings. Without awareness, we act them out—the assumptions, judgments, longings, and fears we place onto others. With awareness, relationships becomes a powerful space for inner work.

Transformational Tango is a powerful journey into the psychology of relationships.

Our intention is to offer a space that supports inner work—one that opens a deeper psychological understanding of the dance of relationships that shape our daily encounters. 

Because the most important relationship you will ever transform is the one you are living every day. 

When we care for the “dance of relationships”—the subtle emotional exchanges, the unspoken assumptions, the embodied responses—we cultivate a grounded respect that strengthens not only individual relationships, but the health of our families, workplaces, and communities as a whole.

4 MODULES

 Specifically designed to take you on an INNER JOURNEY

 

Module 1

The Psychology of the Dance: Psyche & Soma

Learn

Module 2

Collective Motifs and Archetypal Patterns of Tango

Uncover

Module 3

Tango as a Tool for Psychological Development

Reveal

Module 4

Practical Steps to Transform your Dance

Transform

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  • 50+ Video Components
  • 2.5 Hours Audio Recordings
  • 3-Month Access   
  • Certificate upon Completion

All course materials designed, curated, and developed by Ph.D Somatic Specialist and licensed clinicians with extensive dance experience

Unique Program: Instruction led by depth psychology experts and seasoned dancers

 

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  • 50+ Video Components
  • 2.5 Hours Audio Recordings
  • 3-Month Access   
  • Certificate upon Completion

All course materials designed, curated, and developed by Ph.D Somatic Specialist and licensed clinicians with extensive dance experience

Unique Program: Instruction led by depth psychology experts and seasoned dancers

 

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Why this program came into being

From a psychological perspective, the dance of relationship becomes a powerful mirror and transformative tool.

The practice of recognizing and taking responsibility for our inner landscape rather than unconsciously repeating the same old dance is—shadow work. 

Shadow work or Inner work is a loving act of service that we can give to all our relationships. As we commit to knowing ourselves more deeply, we become less reactive and more responsive. We grow less compelled to control, withdraw, or blame, and more capable of staying grounded in the presence of difference. The more responsibility we take for our own shadow, the more space we create for authentic connection.

As seasoned Argentine tango dancers, clinical specialists, business owners, and life partners, we’ve experienced the exhilaration of connection and the frustration of disconnection. Over years of studying, practicing, and dancing, we became fascinated by the psychological undercurrents that shape every step, embrace, and relational encounter — on and off the dance floor.

This program brings together our shared professional expertise and lived experience. It was created for those who want to deepen self-understanding, enrich their relationships, and engage more consciously in the dance of life.

Born from a passion to bring greater meaning, presence, and emotional intelligence to relationships, this program invites you to explore tango as an allegory and pathway for personal growth and relational transformation.

Are you ready to awaken to a more conscious way of moving and being?

Our intention is to provide a transformative space where personal development becomes an act of service—healing your relational patterns contributes to healthier partnerships, families, workplaces, and communities.

An Inside Look 

We invite you to join us for this one-of-a-kind exploration.

A space that opens a doorway to the dance of relationships that shape our lives.

These principles apply to all our relationships both on and off the dance floor!

No dance experience necessary.

This experience is about more than just learning, it’s about awakening!

 

Module 1

The Psychology of the Dance: Psyche & Soma

Relationships are dynamic, embodied and profoundly complex. Every interaction is a living process shaped by the subtle choreography of powerful psychological responses.

Every interaction is shaped not only by spoken, visible, movements of the body, they are also fashioned by the silent messages conveyed by the nervous system and hidden forces of the unconscious.

Whether you’re a dancer or non-dancer, embracing these psychological elements will enrich your personal relationships beyond the dance floor.

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Module 2

Collective Motifs and Archetypal Patterns of Tango

Argentine Tango has a rich, colorful, and compelling history brought about by an unprecedented mix of different cultures. Imbued with collective motifs and all-encompassing patterns, this dance portrays cultural images that belong to the collective.  

The collective level of the unconscious connects all of humanity across time and culture. In today's disconnected world collective motifs and archetypal patterns can provide a sense of connection and belonging regardless of nationality, race, creed, or culture.

However, these patterns also have the power to express and exert their influence in our lives. In fact, they inform our perceptions, impact our decision making, and truly shape behaviors that become the rhythms of daily life.

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Module 3

Tango as a Tool for Psychological Development

The process of psychological development entails specific phases that if all goes well can ultimately lead to the establishment of what is known as the ego-Self axis. However, in order for this vital axis to be formed the ego must undergo each specific stage that is formulated through relationships. Just like tango this process happens one step at a time.

Given that our relationships are often guided by hidden forces, it is common for our day-to-day encounters to become infused with heightened emotions and strong reactions.When this happens we have a tendency to blame, point the finger 'out there' and subsequently miss the opportunity to engage with these experiences as an inner process. 

Relationships are remarkably clever vehicles for eliciting all kind of emotions, reactions and experiences. When we learn how to listen and engage with our emotions, reactions, and experiences as a psychological process, it is possible to bring deeper understanding to what is arising. In this way, we can transform these moments into opportunities to learn more about ourselves and one another.

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Module 4

Practical Steps to Transform your Relationships

We have carefully curated this module to provide you with exercises that invite an inner process. These exercises will serve as powerful tools to undergo a psychological inquiry. You will be guided into a process aimed for you to investigate patterns of behavior from an embodied perspective. Each step will provide you with opportunities for self-reflection and practical steps that will instigate a dialogue between psyche and soma.

When you learn how to reveal bodily attitudes, uncover restrictive patterns, and illuminate shadow material you can awaken instinctual energies that have the power to bring more authenticity and greater freedom into your life. 

Ultimately, when you begin to welcome what arises and invite a psychological inquiry you can bring greater awareness to patterns of relating that are limiting change and inhibiting meaningful connections.

So take a breath, let your body guide you, and allow yourself to be curious.

Because the dance you’re about to explore begins within. 

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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

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Meet the Co-founders of Transformational Tango

Wendy Balconi, Ph.D., LCSW  

(Co-Founder and Course Instructor) 

Wendy has a Ph.D. in Depth Psychology with an emphasis in Somatic Studies. As a clinical licensed specialist, researcher, and avid tango dancer she views the body as a living gateway to inner wisdom, creativity, and transformation. Wendy maintains a thriving private practice in Scottsdale, AZ, where her work centers on embodied expressions and the integration of psyche and soma. 

Her doctoral dissertation, Solvitur Ambulando: An Embodied Experience of Argentine Tango explored the psychological dynamics and transformative potential of the dance relationship. Through in-depth qualitative research, Wendy illuminated how the practice of tango reveals unconscious patterns of relating, exposes psychological defenses, and invites the possibility of genuine connection and wholeness. Her findings demonstrate that tango can serve as a powerful psychological and somatic tool, one that helps individuals identify habitual ways of being, deepen self-awareness, and move toward meaningful and integrative embodied transformation. 

Drawing from her extensive clinical experience and research, Wendy designs workshops, training programs, and individual sessions that blend depth psychology, somatic awareness, and creative movement. Her programs support dancers, therapists, and seekers alike in reconnecting with their instinctual intelligence and reclaiming the body as an instrument of healing, imagination, and more soulful presence. 

Wendy’s approach invites participants to engage life as a dance, and as a living dialogue between the conscious and unconscious. Enduring transformation unfolds not through analysis alone, but through the wisdom and language of the lived-body.  

Marc Adams, LMSW, MBA   

(Co-Founder and Course Instructor)

Marc is a clinically licensed master social worker in private practice in Scottsdale, AZ, specializing in existential and Jungian-oriented counseling. His work invites clients to explore life’s deeper questions, uncover meaning beneath the struggle, and awaken to new possibilities of being. Through a depth-oriented lens, Marc helps individuals transform habitual patterns and outdated narratives into authentic, embodied ways of living and relating. 

With more than two decades of experience as a dedicated Argentine tango dancer, Marc brings a rare and dynamic integration of psychology and embodiment into his clinical practice, Existential Counseling. His dance journey began in classical ballet and evolved through a lifelong exploration of diverse cultural forms, each shaping his nuanced understanding of rhythm, connection, and human expression. 

Ultimately, Argentine tango became one of Marc’s most profound teachers. The attunement, presence, and responsiveness that define the dance also mirror the same principles essential to the therapeutic relationship. In his work, Marc integrates these embodied insights to foster deep self-awareness, emotional resonance, and transformative connection both within oneself and in relationship to others. 

As a course instructor and co-founder, Marc offers an approach to self development that is as intellectually rich as it is experientially alive, inviting participants to engage in a meaningful and transformative process. 

                                                           

Reflection Journals

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⭐️ Thoughtfully curated prompts to deepen self-awareness and reveal shadow material 

⭐️ Space for practice notes, insights, and reflections to enhance your insight and nurture connections  

⭐️ 10 Mandamientos to guide your exploration and facilitate meaningful transformation

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⭐️ Thoughtfully curated prompts to deepen self-awareness and reveal shadow material 

⭐️ Space for practice notes, insights, and reflections to enhance your insight and nurture connections  

⭐️ 10 Mandamientos to guide your exploration and facilitate meaningful transformation

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⭐️ Thoughtfully curated prompts to deepen self-awareness and reveal shadow material 

⭐️ Space for practice notes, insights, and reflections to enhance your insight and nurture connections  

⭐️ 10 Mandamientos to guide your exploration and facilitate meaningful transformation

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Discover the perfect companion for your journey with beautifully designed softcover journals.

All journals feature prompts designed to improve relationships and build self-awareness. These perfect companions are designed designed by therapists and fellow tango dancers. These journals are perfect for those looking to deepen connections and those with a desire to learn more about themselves. Dance reflections are ideal for dance enthusiasts, therapists, and those interested in the self-discovery process.

Embrace the discovery process and transform your relationships from the inside out!   

Product features
- Vibrant colors for enhanced visuals
- Perforated pages for easy removal
- Compact size of 5.75" x 8"
- High-quality 80lb paper 
- 100 pages 

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⭐️ Thoughtfully curated prompts to deepen self-awareness and reveal shadow material 

⭐️ Space for practice notes, insights, and reflections to enhance your insight and nurture connections  

⭐️ 10 Mandamientos to guide your exploration and facilitate meaningful transformation

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⭐️ Thoughtfully curated prompts to deepen self-awareness and reveal shadow material 

⭐️ Space for practice notes, insights, and reflections to enhance your insight and nurture connections  

⭐️ 10 Mandamientos to guide your exploration and facilitate meaningful transformation

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Powerful Testimonials

Amazing Program!

This program was truly amazing. From the incredible visuals to the insightful exercises this program exceeded my expectations.  I am now thinking about the dance of relationships and connecting with partner in a whole new way!

World Class Program

The presenters seamlessly embody the spirit of tango, moving through the material with the grace and fluidity of a dance. Truly a stand out program in my opinion!

 Meaningful and Insightful

Even though I have been dancing tango for 20 years, I have never considered the dance of relationships in this way. The combination of psychological insight and embodied experience remains significant and transformative!

 Professional and Engaging

These concepts and ideas can be readily incorporated into relationships on and off the dance floor. This material not only provides the student a greater appreciation of the complexity of tango, but also provides some important concepts that will support the community at large.

Interesting and Creative

As a tango dancer and artist I was thrilled to see a program that was not only interesting and engaging, but also beautifully designed. The images were captivating and the video components amplified the powerful messaging. In many ways the fusion of art and psychology mirrors the dance of relationship 💃🏽  💞 🕺🏼 

Comprehensive Program

Every module is interesting and engaging and together they support a comprehensive and immersive learning experience. I was impressed with the knowledge and expertise of the presenters and found this program extremely valuable. I am continuing to engage with the concepts and ideas presented in the program and I am enjoying playing with these ideas and learning more about myself. 

Transform Your Dance Today!

The real dance isn't on the dance floor—it’s found in how you show up in every moment and how you embrace the relationships that shape your life.

Tango Dancer & Mental Health Professional?

   

Tango Dancer and Mental Health Professional?

We have also created a certification program specifically designed for the clinical setting. This alternative program is a comprehensive training program for licensed mental health professionals  - 6 CE Hours available. 

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Creative Depth Program

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